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beachedtrust:

thunderpopcola:

This is how you...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ed23cf506cb1211a7e7f06025cbf8d7f/tumblr_mkqt6mKmaw1qzacrko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://exorscissorz.tumblr.com/post/50156925254/beachedtrust-thunderpopcola-this-is-how-you"&gt;exorscissorz&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://beachedtrust.tumblr.com/post/49211468264/thunderpopcola-this-is-how-you-lose-her-you"&gt;beachedtrust&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thunderpopcola.tumblr.com/post/47124968520/this-is-how-you-lose-her-you-lose-her-when-you"&gt;thunderpopcola&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This is how you lose her. &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You lose her when you forget to remember the little things that mean the world to her: &lt;span&gt;the sincerity in a stranger’s voice during a trip to the grocery, the delight of finding something lost or forgotten like a sticker from when she was five, the selflessness of a child giving a part of his meal to another, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;the scent of new books in the store, the surprise &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;short but honest notes she tucks in her journal and others you could only see if you look closely. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;You must remember when she forgets. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You lose her when you don’t notice that she notices everything about you: &lt;span&gt;your&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; use of the proper punctuation that tells her continuation rather than finality, your silence when you’re about to ask a question but you think anything you’re about to say to her would be silly, your mindless humming when it is too quiet, your handwriting when you sign your name in blank sheets of paper, your muted laughter when you are trying to be polite, and more and more of what you are, which you don’t even know about yourself, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;because she pays attention. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;She remembers when you forget. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You lose her for every second you make her feel less and less of the  beauty that she is. When you make her feel that she is replaceable. &lt;em&gt;She wants to feel cherished.&lt;/em&gt; When you make her feel that you are fleeting. &lt;em&gt;She wants you to stay. &lt;/em&gt;When you make her feel inadequate. &lt;em&gt;She wants to know that she is enough and she does not need to change for you, nor for anyone else because she is she and she is beautiful, kind and good.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You must learn her. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And, this is how you keep her.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;the caption &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;you &lt;strong&gt;have to&lt;/strong&gt; read this&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/50313918206</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/50313918206</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 22:49:21 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/655598de42e5bc77b31c91bacdad0d8a/tumblr_mmhhokDHXK1qjm9bpo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/49938777479</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/49938777479</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 12:01:21 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Neurolove.me: 10 Easy Tips for a Happier Life</title><description>&lt;a href="http://neurolove.me/post/49601842345/10-easy-tips-for-a-happier-life"&gt;Neurolove.me: 10 Easy Tips for a Happier Life&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://onlinecounsellingcollege.tumblr.com/post/49509431273/10-easy-tips-for-a-happier-life" target="_blank"&gt;onlinecounsellingcollege&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;1. Remember that friendship is a gift, not a possession.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;2. Do “first things first”. (Generally that means doing the most important task first thing in the morning.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;3. Smile, especially when you’re with other people. (Remember that everyone is fighting a hard…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/49602988649</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/49602988649</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2013 12:40:53 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a60f6d58d9897dca21a2f57f895084e6/tumblr_mlxba2nypp1qjm9bpo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/49027700926</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/49027700926</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 15:19:48 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>lovequotesrus:

EVERYTHING LOVE
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lovequotesrus.tumblr.com/"&gt;EVERYTHING LOVE&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48985526383</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48985526383</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 00:58:49 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3aa5bc8e2db649196306f4910db2de77/tumblr_mg2paxopD41r4dksdo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48985114204</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48985114204</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 00:51:37 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>thedirect0r:

this is fucking crazy
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&lt;p&gt;this is fucking crazy&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48985034820</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48985034820</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 00:50:13 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_manx6wInF91qzjl9xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48984983131</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48984983131</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 00:49:20 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f830db6f201ced5499dc5ad29fa890a7/tumblr_mlwb5mNtR01qjm9bpo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48984751140</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48984751140</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 00:45:18 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>forever-and-alwayss:

well, wow.
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&lt;p&gt;well, wow.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48984654005</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48984654005</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 00:43:39 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/665ff5341d8db049dab2ac5ba35e702e/tumblr_mlwcinujiW1qjm9bpo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48984625848</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/48984625848</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 00:43:10 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4p9tnRdqO1qzd4wlo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/27896738005</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/27896738005</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2012 03:18:39 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2uckjQSyA1qge6voo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/27092699986</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/27092699986</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 21:52:24 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m6ojheG3lB1ra6u3xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/26877581238</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/26877581238</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2012 22:48:28 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5oogy9BUW1qg1i3mo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/26775774236</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/26775774236</guid><pubDate>Sun, 08 Jul 2012 14:53:10 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m69gcqrSi41qf4teko1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/26671058392</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/26671058392</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2012 22:36:04 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>brya-she-rock:

negritaaa:

galaxiesbeyond:

selawa:

Baby gets...</title><description>&lt;iframe src="//www.tumblr.com/video/vnssa/26665059826/400" id="tumblr_video_iframe_26665059826" class="tumblr_video_iframe" width="400" height="300" style="display:block;background-color:transparent;overflow:hidden;" allowTransparency="true" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://brya-she-rock.tumblr.com/post/26122014259/negritaaa-galaxiesbeyond-selawa-baby-gets"&gt;brya-she-rock&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://negritaaa.tumblr.com/post/26121120921/galaxiesbeyond-selawa-baby-gets-her-father"&gt;negritaaa&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://galaxiesbeyond.tumblr.com/post/26113302134"&gt;galaxiesbeyond&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://selawa.tumblr.com/post/26071927370"&gt;selawa&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Baby gets her father into the crib and keeps him there. This is absolutely beautiful! warms my heart&lt;span class="st"&gt;❤&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;so fucking cute.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;oh my fucking gooooooooooood&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Lol wheres that lol ‘you tried’ gif?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/26665059826</link><guid>http://vnssa.tumblr.com/post/26665059826</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2012 20:59:10 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>
“Leopard” by Volodymyr Burdyak 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“Leopard” by &lt;a href="http://500px.com/photo/8114302?from=popular"&gt;Volodymyr Burdyak &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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